After my last post I had some photo organizing to do, unrelated to 2016, but none-the-less I ended up going through a whole lot of images from last year, and I had a realization: there was a lot of laughter in the past year.  There were also many good times, a fuckton of joy and play, silliness and love and friendship. Yes, there’s been a lot of sad in me, and it’s caused me to act out many times in ways that I am not proud of…but a little perspective is perhaps in order, too.

I’m really, really hard on myself. If I don’t act in all ways in compassion, in love, in kindness and with good intent, I am convinced that I am a horrible person and believe I am undeserving of love.

The truth is, I have been ugly and small-minded at times. I have felt anger at those whom I love and that love me, and lashed out. I have been sharp and prickly and difficult. But I have also felt love, and joy, and been compassionate and fair-minded and open-hearted. I need to remind myself of that, and to remember the good as well as the bad.

To that end I am posting a pictorial retrospective of this past year. So that I can revisit this space to remind myself, when I am feeling dark, that it’s not always that way. There is sunlight. There are smiles. There is love.

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2016 in Retrospect – A Little Perspective

6 thoughts on “2016 in Retrospect – A Little Perspective

  • January 8, 2017 at 12:57 am
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    Just so you know, and there can be NO DOUBT, you are a wonderful person. You are deserving of love, peace, joy and happiness.

    I am so grateful that I know you and that you poignant writing never ceases to touch me, heart and soul.

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    • January 9, 2017 at 12:45 pm
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      Thank you, John. I wish you all the best in the new year!

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  • January 8, 2017 at 2:26 am
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    I like the smiles and love the City Museum shot. You would be a hell of a lot of fun to know, Jade. I hope you have the happiest year ever in ’17.

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    • January 9, 2017 at 12:47 pm
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      Thank you, Clive! The City Museum was such a fun day/night! I wish I could post more of the pics (my friend that visited can’t have her image in a sex blog due to professional concerns.) But we had a great time and I can’t wait for her to visit again.

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  • January 8, 2017 at 7:34 pm
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    That was GREAT! Thanks for sharing a part of you….Drew

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  • January 10, 2017 at 5:01 am
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    Such a lovely lot of photos – and to see you smile (and flash) was a delight!

    xx Dee

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