Monthly Archives: December 2019

The Twelve Tasks of Kinkmas – Task 6

Task 6 – Describe what a cooter is and list at least 5 uses for it. Post a pic. Day 6 and I almost let the day/night get away with me without completing this task! The damn thing is that I could have written this at work – I had literally ZERO things to do and was just marking time until “go home” time. (I hate days like that.) BUT, I didn’t think about this task, because I had so many other things going on. Moving day is Wednesday and I have packing and coordinating to do. I just got done with dog sitting and am finally home again, but my routine is destroyed, all my things are in suitcases or boxes or god knows where, as is the rest of my house. I do very poorly when everything is unorganized and in disarray. I’m trying to keep it togetherRead more …

The Twelve Tasks of Kinkmas – Task 5

Dec 29, 2019 | Posted by in Kink & Scenes, Kinkmas 2019, Sinful Sunday | 10

Task 5 – The face of orgasm I actually did this in video – holding Black Baldy (my waterproof Hitachi-wanna-be that also happens to be black) in one hand and the phone in the other. And thinking dirty thoughts in my head! What can I say, I’m a multi-tasker. But I can’t upload mp4’s here easily, so ya’ll just get a couple of images – ones that didn’t turn out too blurry. LOL See the rest of the Kinkmas series here. Check out the rest of the Sunday Sinners below.

The Twelve Tasks of Kinkmas – Task 4

Task 4: Box yourself up naked for Boxing Day I know, I know, I missed the actual Boxing Day, which is, apparently, a holiday celebrated in the U.K. and in certain other countries that used to be part of the British Empire, such as Canada. I didn’t realize it was the day after Christmas until yesterday, when I asked The Photographer if he’d mind taking a photo of me naked, in a box, and then had to look up what “Boxing Day” meant.¬† Soooo…a little late. But better late than never, eh?? Some other exciting things that happened: I got the keys to my new house and I moved my first box in! I am a new home owner! I can’t believe it, to be honest. I had never wanted to be tied down to one place before, to a house, to a mortgage. And, maybe, I’ll regret it ifRead more …

The Twelve Tasks of Kinkmas – Task 3

Task 3 – Suction your nipples and then decorate them For this task I got to use toys that Adam bought for me a long time ago, but that neither he or V ever used on me. Suction cups are delightfully painful…they give me that long, pulling, pinching feeling that pulls from my nipples to my cunt…so yummy. And which also led to me completing another task…but you’ll have to wait for that one. ;-)

The Twelve Tasks of Kinkmas, Task 2

I’m sitting here at work trying to decide if I want to write about my “real life” and all the mixed feelings I am having, that seem to be overwhelming me right this minute, or just focus on the fun part (completing Day 2 of my Twelve Tasks of Kinkmas.) I guess accomplishing that, and the moments of levity the task induced, in juxtaposition with the mish-mash of feelings I’ve been experiencing, is my “real life.” But it seems sad to bring down my kinda-sexy, kinda-silly Kinkmas Tasks post with all the emotional backwash of the last day or so, so I’ll stick to the fun, for now. Might be that I’ll follow up with a “feelings” (whoa whoa whoa feelings) post at some later time. Task 2: Wear clamps on your nipples under a white blouse at work. Take a picture in your office. So ya’ll know I couldn’tRead more …

Holidays and The Twelve Tasks of Kinkmas, Task 1

Happy holidays from me to you! I admit to being uncomfortable with wishing a merry Christmas – not for anyone else’s sensibilities, but for my own. It irritates the piss out of me to celebrate something that was stolen from another culture in order to erase it, although to be honest pretty much all Christian/religious traditions probably ride on the back of others’ traditions, so…oh well. I’ll use the holiday season (whether you’re celebrating the Winter Solstice, Saturnalia or a special human’s birth) to make/buy gifts (my favorite part of the holiday – giving presents!), consume delicious meals, spend time with loved ones…and maybe (just maybe)…get my kink on a bit! This is a very different holiday for me than those in the past. Last night was the first time in many, many¬†years that I spent the night alone. I was about to write that it will probably be theRead more …

Good Vibes

Dec 21, 2019 | Posted by in Being Poly, Everyday Jade | 8

I am in hour number 24 of a migraine. I feel as though my skull is splitting. My teeth ache, my ear aches, my cheekbone and the bones around my eye and my jawbone are in an exquisite agony. Light and movement cause waves of pain that throb and then stab my head. So what am I doing, sitting here writing? I’ve taken four rounds of painkiller. In between I have taken tylonol, tylonol PM, and/or simply tried to wait out the pain, because the migraine medicine makes my stomach hurt so much. But when I do take it, I lay here awake because of the caffeine, and because of it, in spite of being unable to get up and move about, I am antsy and bored, my brain running a hundred miles a minute. It’s an awful cycle. Reading requires too much focus (and my eyes), listening to aRead more …

An Update

Dec 18, 2019 | Posted by in Being Poly, Everyday Jade | 8

I keep thinking I should post something; update here; bring this space up-to-date. Then I face the blank screen, and all the words of all the things, and I lose the energy or initiative. I just want to make myself a drink and sink into a book under my covers. But I won’t. I will write words. I’m back from Cuba. Beautiful country, enjoyable and challenging trip all at once, friendships forged. It was a thing that challenged me but I DID IT. So there. Came back to North America (Toronto specifically) and spent two days and nights with M, my friend from the Chicago party and the organizer of the Cuba excursion. It was wonderful. We talked, we dined, we played. We like each other a lot. Things are progressing towards some kind of D/s-y LDR, though we are taking it slow as I work through my break-up withRead more …

An Update and Setting an Intention

Dec 6, 2019 | Posted by in Being Poly, Everyday Jade, Relationship Stuff | 2

I’ve started this post about half a dozen times. I’ve written and rewritten, I’ve been calm and matter-of-fact, I’ve been sad and lost, I’ve been angry and bitter, I’ve tried to convince the world (or at least that part of it that reads here) that I am justified in my reasons and I’ve simply spewed it all out, justifications be damned. And now, here I am, deciding, fuck it. I don’t want to rehash it all. It is what it is. I just want to move on. At least that’s what I feel right this moment. The next I may want to rehash it over and over until I’m sick of listening to myself. Who knows. It’s been a roller coaster of emotions, but I guess that’s to be expected. I broke up with V the Wednesday before Thanksgiving. For good this time. I think. I hope. There are allRead more …