Monthly Archives: January 2020

400!

I have had every intention of adding a link to this week’s Wicked Wednesday to help celebrate its 400th(!) week in existence. Four-zero-zero – that’s not a typo! Congrats to Marie over at rebelsnotes.com for running such a popular, fun, interesting, sexy and oftentimes thought-provoking meme. I have not participated in it (especially recently) as I ought or would like, but then I haven’t been writing here at all as often as I ought/would like. Every week I start out saying, “I’m going to write more…” but then life happens, as it will, and writing doesn’t get done. It almost happened this week with Wicked Wednesday. Here it is Wednesday afternoon, and I am at work, writing this when I’m supposed to be doing worky things because I have not had a free minute to write other than this. I had several topics in mind when I saw the promptRead more …

The Twelve Tasks of Kinkmas – Task 12

At long last we come to the end of this long and winding road. It took awhile to get here, and yes, I know now I’ve posted two in one day, but I wanted to post this one for Sinful Sunday, so here we are. Task 12: Submission   Check out the whole series of the Twelve Tasks of Kinkmas by clicking here. Did you have a favorite? Leave me a note below! Click on the link below to check out all the other Sinful Sunday entries.

The Twelve Tasks of Kinkmas – Task 11

Jan 19, 2020 | Posted by in Kinkmas 2019, The Twelve Tasks of Kinkmas | 1

Task 11 – Take a photo of your (pain) toys and describe how each feels. This was a little more challenging of a task than I thought it would be. I just moved and they were packed all over the place, hard to get together. A whole shit-ton of my toys were over with V. He returned them, but looking through them was…a little challenging. And then, when I finally did get them all together (wow what a pile!) looking through them was a little challenging for a different reason: now I want to feel them all on me, one after the other, and it doesn’t look like that’s going to happen any time soon. It’s been so long since I’ve been hit with these that…well, I’ve forgotten the details of how the felt for some of them. Also, there’s a lot of them! Here’s the pile. I decided toRead more …

The Twelve Tasks of Kinkmas – Task 10

Woo! Check it out, we’re up to ten. This is a task that I have been kind of putting off, because, frankly, I wasn’t sure I could manage it. It’s been…oh, awhile…since I’ve played this way. And in the last couple years, physically it hasn’t always been something I can do for various reasons. But when I can – woohoo! It’s a thing I super like. Anyway. I didn’t actually accomplish it this time, but I got damn close, and I *think* the images fulfill the spirit of the task itself. And, as an appeasement, for both my tardiness and because I wasn’t successful the first time, I have made an offer to The Canadian to attempt it again, tonight, on Marco Polo. (Don’t know Marco Polo? If you are in a long distance relationship or even a not-so-long-distance relationship with someone, you should. Go on, Google it. Then imagineRead more …

The Twelve Tasks of Kinkmas – Task 9

Not much of a life update today – though I wrote lots of words over the weekend, and have been busy busy doing all sorts of things! – but I’m running late (as per usual) this morning and I REALLY want to get this post done so I can get these tasks done, because eventually The Canadian is going to take me to “task” for not finishing them!…so here, for your viewing pleasure, is Task 9. The Photographer had a helping hand in this – on the camera and (ahem) maybe checking on the kitchen wench’s “heat” (don’t want her getting overheated!) or possibly even stirring some up… ;-) Task 9 – Wearing stockings, high heels & an apron, show us your kitchen I’m going to have to add this to this week’s Wicked Wednesday – the theme is “flaunt.” You know, because I’m flaunting my cooking skills. Check outRead more …

Don’t Do This

My poor dog ate a square of “special” chocolate meant to be a sleep-aid for me. It was not the chocolate that hurt him (thank goodness, chocolate can be deadly for dogs) but the “secret ingredient.” Apparently doggo is as susceptible (in a bad way) to the stuff as I am (can’t consume it, in any format. I end up in a corner, staring out at a world made threatening and unfriendly, my heart pounding, anxiety raking its claws up and down me. Kind of like it is doing now, without the substance, as I watch my poor dog stumble about, confused and frightened.) His vet assures me that the minute amount he consumed, while disorienting and possibly misery-inducing for him, won’t kill him – but he was definitely traumatized and I feel horrible. I am also awake at 1:30 a.m. when I should be sleeping. He’s sleeping soundly atRead more …

The Twelve Tasks of Kinkmas – Task 7; a Mea Culpa

Of course I couldn’t get through the entire twelve days of tasks without missing a day. Or two. Ok, so I had a fairly good reason. Yesterday was moving day, and the day before that was spent packing up at the old house and getting ready to move! It momentous New Year’s Eve/New Year’s Day, for sure. Still I have to take responsibility (and punishment) for not planning ahead enough to pre-schedule posts on these two days. I knew that I’d be too crazy busy all day and night to get them done, but time and energy just plain got away from me. And I actually did have time last night, after the movers and Adam, the daughter and various friends had gone home, after pizza and beer, and after V had put together my bed, to post the one task that I had finished in advance of the move,Read more …