Author Archives: Jade

Forward by the scruff of my neck

I’m moving forward, if incrementally, into a more stable emotional space. I am hoping that feeling better will spur my motivation to write, as well – you know, like the sexy, naughty stuff – but we will see. At the moment, I’m not feeling any sexy, naughty stuff, much less doing any sexy naughty stuff, so it’s kind of a moot point, but, you know, it could happen. Or I could write fiction. As it stands, V and I are kind of in a holding pattern. We’re not off, but we’re not exactly on, either, as I struggle through the emotional morass I have found myself in. We’re holding still. We’re communicating (sometimes a lot) and mostly in healthy ways, and still seeing each other our two times/week. Last weekend we even saw each other in the middle of a weekend day (gasp.) But things aren’t entirely – or even remotely –Read more …

What if?

Mar 14, 2019 | Posted by in Being Poly, Boob Day, Everyday Jade | 0

When things were a bit better, recently, this happened. It was part of the night that this and this happened, and was a lot of fun. After getting roped up and my bra on, prior to dressing, I looked down at the pretty red rope, soft gray bra, and my pokie little nipples and decided they deserved a post of their own. So now you get to enjoy them too for Boobday! I guess I should clarify, actually, that things aren’t bad. In fact, in spite of my blog post earlier this week, they are very, very good in many ways. I mean, this happened just Monday: “This” being me getting walloped with Viper’s belt (mmph, just saying those words in my head makes my pussy twitch a bit) while I was still holding my crochet project. No time to put it down, just him pushing me over and deliveringRead more …

Thoughts on the Smut Marathon – Round 2

Well, here it is the end of Round 2 in the Smut Marathon and I am still in it! Go me! Ok I’ll be honest, I assumed I would be. But not because I’m cocky – BECAUSE I MUST HAVE MISUNDERSTOOD THE RULES. I thought, right up until I saw the email that said, “congrats, you’re still in!” that like Round 1, Round 2 was also a no-knockout round. I have no idea what gave me that idea – I swear (in spite of missing the “you can vote for yourself” rule and this one) that I read all the instructions all the way through, every time. No really, I do!! Anyway. It appears that in spite of it being a knock-out round, I wasn’t knocked out, which of course pleases me greatly. It also means that I now go on to the next round, which assignment is even trickier! So aRead more …

A Rough Couple of Days

Mar 11, 2019 | Posted by in 2019 Smut Marathon, Being Poly, Everyday Jade | 3

Or weeks, I guess. It started with a weekend alone that didn’t turn out the way I planned during which my blogs both crashed and I was faced with the possibility of them not being recoverable. In the face of that I was overwhelmed with feeling like I’m nobody’s priority. Things just went downhill from there. So here I am, ten days into March and I haven’t written a word since my last 2019 Photofest post on Feb. 28. I’m proud I finished it out, and I was proud of my entry and ranking for Round 2 of the Smut Marathon, but the bottom line is I just haven’t had it in me to write much. Maybe, as As Hy said in her Boobday post Friday, I blew my writing wad with the Photofest. But I know there is more to it than just that. The debacle with my sites beingRead more …

February 28 – A Last Image

Mar 1, 2019 | Posted by in 2019 February Photofest, Kinky Stuff | 6

I debated what to post today, the last day of this (rather spectacular) February Photofest. What fun it’s been! Both making & posting my own images and seeing everyone else’s. I have a lot of pretty images left over from the shoots with my friend Allan, and of course, since it’s Throwback Thursday, I could post one from the before time, but when I saw this pic that Viper took the other night, I realized that this had to be the last one. I love everything about it. My curves, the collar, the ink following the curves of my body; but it also tells a story with the pose, the chain, and the basement. I’m heading out of town this weekend for a mini-writing retreat to (hopefully) work on a submission for a bondage erotica anthology – I’d love it if I could somehow work this image into the story.Read more …

For your reading & viewing pleasure: Elust 115

Feb 28, 2019 | Posted by in e_lust | 0

Photo courtesy of Katteroo Welcome to Elust 115– The only place where the smartest and hottest sex bloggers are featured under one roof every month. Whether you’re looking for sex journalism, erotic writing, relationship advice or kinky discussions it’ll be here at Elust. Want to be included in Elust #116? Start with the rules, come back March 1st to submit something and subscribe to the RSS feed for updates!   ~ This Month’s Top Three Posts ~ Abstinence Makes the Heart Grow Fonder Your Loss Ask for It ~ Featured Post (Molly’s Picks) ~ Two Explorers Sweet Child of Mine ~Readers Choice from Sexbytes ~ {Na}Scent Traces   *You really should consider adding your popular posts here too* All blogs that have a submission in this edition must re-post this digest from tip-to-toe on their blogs within 7 days. Re-posting the photo is optional and the use of the “readRead more …

February 26 – Mixed Media

Feb 26, 2019 | Posted by in 2019 February Photofest, Everyday Jade | 2

These images were inspired by a favorite of mine of Annie Savoy’s. I love mixing up patterns! Also, I was feeling pretty darn good about myself for getting in my elliptical at lunch today, rather than napping. Maybe this getting-to-bed-earlier thing has some merit after all.  

February 24 – Yoga Socks & Bedtime Routines

Feb 24, 2019 | Posted by in 2019 February Photofest, Sinful Sunday | 8

More playing with filters. But I’m also working on new bedtime/waking routines. I’ve been having so much trouble sleeping (a large part of it is medication playing havoc with my system) but it’s also my own bad habits. I’m tired of a) being a zombie at work, and b) bitching about how I “want” to get up earlier, do morning and evening stretches, be good to myself. If I “want” to, then I have to actually do it. So here’s the first changes: Step 1: In bed by 10:30 work nights. Step 2: 15 minutes of gentle yoga before bed. Step 3: No electronics (by that I mean the phone, laptop or Kindle, not Baldy!) in bed after 10:30. I can have a real book to read until 11:00. Phone is on charger over on my desk. I haven’t yet worked out a morning routine, but at least having theRead more …