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#AtoZChallenge – I is for Indecent

Viper wanted me to do dishes in just my top the other morning. He thought it would be naughty and scandalously indecent for me to be traipsing around with my bottom hanging out in their kitchen, in front of their big picture windows (ok so the windows face their backyard, but, you get the idea.) He didn’t realize my blouse came down over my butt. So, not so scandalous. I felt sorry for him not getting to see my butt, so I gave him a little flash. Brigit of Brigit Writes has posed the question for the Erotic Journal Challenge, “What make you feel sexy?” I’d have to say being a little “indecent” hits my sexy button pretty hard. Showing a little too much leg, wearing a dress cut down to “there” in front or back, material that clings to all my curves suggestively. A lacy bra showing under aRead more …

#AtoZChallenge – G is for Green (and So is #SinfulSunday)

I’m cheating a little: I missed “F” on Saturday in the #AtoZChallenge, and today is not supposed to be a letter day according to the official calendar, but this week is a theme day for Sinful Sunday, and it just happens that the theme is the letter G, so… long story short, I’m doing my G post for the #AtoZChallenge on Sunday instead of Monday. There’s a perfectly valid reason I missed Saturday – I was with Adam all day and Viper all night; consciously choosing to spend less time with both makes the time I do spend with them very focused – on being present with them, on paying attention to how we spend our time, whether it’s spent curled up napping on the couch with the dog, or playing a game of Pass the Pigs in which points = whacks with the implement of the winner’s choice. (IRead more …

#AtoZChallenge – D is for…

I swear I was going to go highbrow, and write about my daughter: D is for Daughter, because yes, I am incredibly blessed and so very thankful to have the relationship I do with her. But…well damn…I’ve been thinking about sex and play and kink for the last few days, and I kinda want to write about that. I’m a Bad Momma, what can I say. Viper and I (and Adam, when he chooses to participate) are lucky enough to have several spaces in which to play. I wouldn’t call all of them “dungeons” but they each have their own flavor, and we play differently depending on where we are. I feel fortunate that we have so may different ways and places to express what we do and how we do it, and who we are when we do it. So. D is for Dungeon. All the various dungeons weRead more …

#AtoZChallenge – C is for Crave

I see V again Thursday night. Twenty-four hours. Not so long to wait, in the scheme of things. BUT. It’s been so long since we’ve been in “that” space together. Saturday night, I got a taste, before something unexpected happened and we had to stop, too soon. Up against the cross, wrists tied, skin bared. His hands on me, his mouth on mine, his body pressed heavily against my naked skin. I squirm a bit. Wriggle my ass, feel the heat between my thighs. His fingers are there for a moment, then gone. He steps back. The flogger whistles through the air. It lands with a thud against my back. My ass. My thighs and my shoulders. Between my legs, back to my ass. I’m warm now. Grooving to the music and the tempo of his strikes. The flogger is heavy and thick, pushing me against the cross; except whenRead more …

The Erotic Journal Challenge Catch-Up Week

I was thrilled when Brigit of Brigit Writes announced that she was posting a “catch-up” week for the Erotic Journal Challenge prompts, allowing writers to answer any (or all) of the questions they had missed the first time around. (Or to add another post to one they had answered previously.) I had answered the first one, but had been too busy or just felt that I didn’t have enough to say that I hadn’t already said about the others. So this gives me a chance to answer some of the questions I missed in Q & A format, and not feel like I have to do a whole blog post on each one. We’ll see how it goes – if I get long-winded on any of them I may break it out on its own. Prompt #2: Discovery – When did you discover your own sexuality? For example, when wasRead more …

A Hairy Question

Mar 23, 2019 | Posted by in Relationship Stuff, Writing About Kink | 0

V asked me today, “What would you do/how would you react if I were to tell you to not color your hair or do anything to it? To just let it be?” He wasn’t asking me about hairstyles. It’s a complicated question, especially right now, when our D/s is on the back burner, waiting for us to figure things out again. Or me to figure things out again. I’m not sure I could say it’s all the way on the back burner, though: I was over at V’s last night, and little bits of it crept in, here and there. I’m not talking about out-and-out play; we did play, but it felt oddly bereft of D/s, more like topping. Which was fine. I needed a good ass-whipping, and that was what I got. But in many of our other interactions last night, the D/s was there, simmering under the surface,Read more …

February 28 – A Last Image

Mar 1, 2019 | Posted by in 2019 February Photofest, Writing About Kink | 6

I debated what to post today, the last day of this (rather spectacular) February Photofest. What fun it’s been! Both making & posting my own images and seeing everyone else’s. I have a lot of pretty images left over from the shoots with my friend Allan, and of course, since it’s Throwback Thursday, I could post one from the before time, but when I saw this pic that Viper took the other night, I realized that this had to be the last one. I love everything about it. My curves, the collar, the ink following the curves of my body; but it also tells a story with the pose, the chain, and the basement. I’m heading out of town this weekend for a mini-writing retreat to (hopefully) work on a submission for a bondage erotica anthology – I’d love it if I could somehow work this image into the story.Read more …

February 19 – Feeling Crafty

Feb 19, 2019 | Posted by in 2019 February Photofest, Writing About Kink | 3

I went to the craft store the other day to obtain supplies for both a personal project and for a new weekly task that my Owner has set for me. There I also found these adorable little clothespins in such lovely bright colors that I couldn’t resist buying them, tho I have absolutely no need for them. Well, except this. It had to be done.