2016 February Photofest

Loneliness & Other Failures

Feb 22, 2016 | Posted by in 2016 February Photofest, Being Poly | 5

Loneliness is a hard nut to crack. It’s not as easy as “spend time with people” – I’ve spent a good part of my life lonely in the middle of a crowd. It’s not as easy as “spend time with your significant other” – I spent a good portion of my second marriage feeling lonely. Not even the old standby “you have to love yourself!” erases it – I don’t believe this is about loving myself or not. So what is it about? Why do I feel lonely sitting in a bar at a munch while everyone drinks and laughs and talks; or at a play party watching everyone around me engaging with each other joy and abandon? Why do I feel lonely at times as I lay next to a lover after play, physically satiated but filled with a longing I can’t place? Why did I feel lonely last nightRead more …

February 14 – Valentine Filth

I had planned for my (pre)Valentine’s Day date with V to be…filthy. Dirty in ways that I haven’t even begun to divulge here. Unfortunately, for various reasons – mostly to do with my (traitorous) body – none of those things happened. This Kink of the Week‘s topic is “filth.” I almost missed it, but am so glad I didn’t. Being a dirty girl is central to my kink, to many of V’s and my kink interactions. I’m his dirty kitty. He doesn’t know about his missed Valentine’s Day present. Well… He didn’t. Until now.

February 12 & 13 – Fork & a Three-Way

Feb 15, 2016 | Posted by in 2016 February Photofest, Being Poly, Kinky Stuff | 0

Yep, I’ve done it again, I missed posting my daily February Photofest pics. Once again, however, I took pictures! I just didn’t post them. I’m still figuring out my blogging/writing routine. I’m figuring out my life routine… Anyway, in a few pictures, in a few words, here are the last few Photofest pics… February 12 – Fork   There were several images I wanted to create for this prompt. I had visions of poking soft female flesh under the table…of snapping a clandestine photo while the waiter and patrons had their heads turned during my pre-Valentine’s Day date with V… It didn’t happen because of lack of opportunity. I thought of looping the tines through my rings at some point during our date and snapping a pic…but we didn’t end up in a place where that was possible. But early on – during our dinner – we snapped this picture.Read more …

Day 11 – Keyboard, a TBT

Feb 12, 2016 | Posted by in 2016 February Photofest, Kinky Stuff, Life Before | 2

I’ve not often done the Throwback Thursday thing, and in truth mine isn’t the really cool way that Molly and Penny have done in the past, with re-shooting or re-editing (check out Re-Hunted and Reminiscent, to call out their latest TBT posts), but TBT has a different connotation for me – of course I am remembering and recalling things from Kink & Poly. Although I don’t write there any more, and have closed out that chapter of my life, it is still a huge part of my past, and I’d like to feature posts from there occasionally. Throwback Thursday makes sense to me as a day to do that, and I’m thinking of creating a category for them. It’s a way to honor the past…without having to live in it. So… Enough heavy stuff! On to…my image for this day’s prompt from V: keyboard. (See, a way to tie in theRead more …

Day 10 – Sharpies

Feb 11, 2016 | Posted by in 2016 February Photofest | 4

This post is a little late, because I was up late creating the image that is the “official” February 10th image, and also it took me awhile to find the images that I was originally going to use when V told me that “Sharpie” was my prompt for the day. Obviously this wasn’t something I could do at work. ;-) Quite a bit of fun was had at work though, as V used the proposed image that he wanted – and the threat to enlist a friend of mine to “assist” with the photo-making and photo-taking – to keep me anxious and overheated all day. In the end, Adam assisted me, laughing the whole time as I told him of the day’s back-and-forth between V and I. I’m happy to have him engaging in play with us. He used to love this role with W and I – “Devil’s Assistant”Read more …

Day 9 – Chair

Feb 10, 2016 | Posted by in 2016 February Photofest, Fictions, Wicked Wednesday | 4

What? How else would I spend my first evening at home in several days? Reading in my favorite pink socks and panties…about threesomes…of course…   Check out my story, “Full Circle”, as well as a whole heaping pile of hot, sexy, threeway fun: http://www.amazon.com/Three-Hearts-Erotic-Romance-Women-ebook/dp/B00NE6QWH2

Days 5, 6, 7 & 8 – Spreadeagle, Boobs, Tongue, Hand

Feb 9, 2016 | Posted by in 2016 February Photofest, Memes & Prompts | 3

I’ve been away for the weekend at an event with V, (which story I’ll share a bit in the next couple days) so I haven’t been able to post my February Photofest images or Daily Kittens, but I took pictures every day and sent kittens to V every day as well, so I’ve decided to put them all here in one post. Hopefully by tomorrow I’ll be back on track! (I just read the title and grinned – sounds like a fun play session, doesn’t it?) Day 5: Spreadeagle/Mirror   Day 6: Boobs   Day 7: Tongue Day 8: Hand The pictures kind of tell a story all on their own, don’t they?

Day 2 – Rubber Bands

Rubber bands have a special place in my heart now – they are the first item V had me use to “torture” myself while I was at work. We don’t get to see each other as often as I did W, and our time together is often family/vanilla time spent with his wife and daughter (which is lovely, don’t get me wrong) but there are many times when I need to be reminded – I need to feel – our D/s relationship more than time and our schedules permit. Many kink couples have the same issue, and so often they devise ways to keep both the D and the s reminded of the special dynamic they share. Playing remotely is one of those. V and I haven’t experimented with this a lot, but the times we have I have loved. They are games, yes, and they are fun, but theyRead more …

2016 February Photofest

Feb 2, 2016 | Posted by in 2016 February Photofest | 10

In 2014, Molly, of Molly’s Daily Kiss introduced her meme, “February Photofest,” in which bloggers are encouraged & challenged to post an image a day, every day in February. I participated the first year over on Kink & Poly, and intended to last year, but then…well, last year, of course, I shut down K&P in February, and didn’t know if I would ever participate – or even blog – again. Now here it is February again, and…I’m blogging again. A new space, new relationships, new hopes and goals and desires. So…I’m giving it a go again. Not to relive the past, or regurgitate it, but to usher in this new chapter in my life. While there may be some “legacy” images from years past, I’m going to try to honor the intent of this new space, and of my new life, by posting pictures inspired by V and our relationship. He hasRead more …